LAV Splitter advanced subtitles configuration

Hello, I have a problem with configurating LAV splitter. I can't find a way to always load the second subtitles, first one is only signs & songs, second is a full subtitle stream that interests me. I have tried to set few rules with advanced subtitle settings, but even when I disable forced and default with "!df" flag, I always get the first one to load. The problem here is the fact that the first stream is set as both forced and default. Below is the info from the file and all the software I'm using:

Video
ID : 1
Format : AVC
Format/Info : Advanced Video Codec
Format profile : High 10@L5
Format settings : CABAC / 4 Ref Frames
Format settings, CABAC : Yes
Format settings, RefFrames : 4 frames
Codec ID : V_MPEG4/ISO/AVC
Duration : 22 min 51 s
Bit rate : 7 637 kb/s
Width : 1 920 pixels
Height : 1 080 pixels
Display aspect ratio : 16:9
Frame rate mode : Constant
Frame rate : 23.976 (24000/1001) FPS
Color space : YUV
Chroma subsampling : 4:2:0
Bit depth : 10 bits
Scan type : Progressive
Bits/(Pixel*Frame) : 0.154
Stream size : 1.22 GiB (71%)
Title : 1080p BD [Beatrice-Raws]
Language : Japanese
Default : Yes
Forced : No
Color range : Limited
Color primaries : BT.709
Transfer characteristics : BT.709
Matrix coefficients : BT.709

Audio #1
ID : 2
Format : FLAC
Format/Info : Free Lossless Audio Codec
Codec ID : A_FLAC
Duration : 22 min 51 s
Bit rate mode : Variable
Bit rate : 1 600 kb/s
Channel(s) : 6 channels
Channel positions : Front: L C R, Side: L R, LFE
Sampling rate : 48.0 kHz
Frame rate : 11.719 FPS (4096 SPF)
Bit depth : 16 bits
Stream size : 262 MiB (15%)
Title : 5.1Ch FLAC 16bit
Writing library : libFLAC 1.3.1 (UTC 2014-11-25)
Language : English
Default : Yes
Forced : Yes

Audio #2
ID : 3
Format : FLAC
Format/Info : Free Lossless Audio Codec
Codec ID : A_FLAC
Duration : 22 min 51 s
Bit rate mode : Variable
Bit rate : 1 448 kb/s
Channel(s) : 2 channels
Channel positions : Front: L R
Sampling rate : 48.0 kHz
Frame rate : 11.719 FPS (4096 SPF)
Bit depth : 24 bits
Stream size : 237 MiB (14%)
Title : 2.0Ch FLAC 24bit
Writing library : libFLAC 1.3.1 (UTC 2014-11-25)
Language : Japanese
Default : No
Forced : No

Text #1
ID : 4
Format : ASS
Codec ID : S_TEXT/ASS
Codec ID/Info : Advanced Sub Station Alpha
Duration : 22 min 48 s
Bit rate : 1 870 b/s
Count of elements : 2356
Compression mode : Lossless
Stream size : 312 KiB (0%)
Title : Signs and Songs
Language : English
Default : Yes
Forced : Yes

Text #2
ID : 5
Format : ASS
Codec ID : S_TEXT/ASS
Codec ID/Info : Advanced Sub Station Alpha
Duration : 22 min 48 s
Bit rate : 1 970 b/s
Count of elements : 2665
Compression mode : Lossless
Stream size : 329 KiB (0%)
Title : Full subtitles [MK-Pn8]
Language : English
Default : No
Forced : No

Menu
00:00:00.000 : en:Intro
00:00:24.024 : en:OP
00:01:54.030 : en:Part A
00:08:59.997 : en:Part B
00:21:24.992 : en:ED
00:22:35.020 : en:Preview

I'm using Potplayer ver 1.7.5545, madVR 0.92.9, LAV filters 0.72 and XYSubFilter 3.1.0.746

This works for me:
*:*|n,*:*|d,*:*|f

n = normal, so not default and not forced

You can replace the stars with language combinations. When no normal sub is available, the above will use default, and then forced. Simply list them in the order that you want it matched.

Nope, I already tried this setting, also loading the first subtitle stream :/

PotPlayer may be overriding the choice of the splitter. Check its settings.

No, I'm absolutely sure all the subtitle settings in PotPlayer are off.

Edit:
Ok, after trying every possible thing I finally tried to reinstall all the codecs one by one. After latest win10 update my XYSubFilter was corrupted somehow. when I installed it again, everything is working fine. Now that I checked, it was a problem with changing subtitle stream to anything but the first one, no flags did matter here, what is strange. Anyhow, thanks for the help. Case closed.